More about Man and Woman
Generally speaking, women, are warm, sensitive creatures. Their world revolves around relationships and conversation. When in love, there is nowhere they'd rather be than with their partner. She will take every opportunity to spend time with him and go to great lengths to see him. By spending time together, woman has the opportunity to connect and communicate with her man. In doing so, she is able to seek out the care, understanding, respect, devotion, validation and reassurance that are so important to her.
Men, also enjoy time with their partner. However, their intimacy needs are not met through constant togetherness. They thrive on action more than communication. While women tend to over analyze a time she and her man spent together, man does not need to relive every word or examine every detail to ensure that all has gone well. Instead, they concentrate on their next task. Men focus more on trying to do something that will contribute to the overall relationship and bring the woman happiness.
Well, the fact I am writing all these here means I am a woman:-)
One of the biggest mistakes that modern women seem to make in relationships is that we stop looking at men as the icing to the cake, and start expecting men to be everything to us. I think this is a byproduct of our busy, fast-paced lifestyles where we have less and less time to establish friendships with other women and look beyond ourselves (often self centered selves). The result is that with our limited time we assume that our intimate relationships we have to give us what we need. This would not work. Men, for better or worse, will always be men. We can not make men fit into a female mold, and vice versa.
Ok, I am done with this "men vs. women" thing, at least for today. LOL
Men, also enjoy time with their partner. However, their intimacy needs are not met through constant togetherness. They thrive on action more than communication. While women tend to over analyze a time she and her man spent together, man does not need to relive every word or examine every detail to ensure that all has gone well. Instead, they concentrate on their next task. Men focus more on trying to do something that will contribute to the overall relationship and bring the woman happiness.
Well, the fact I am writing all these here means I am a woman:-)
One of the biggest mistakes that modern women seem to make in relationships is that we stop looking at men as the icing to the cake, and start expecting men to be everything to us. I think this is a byproduct of our busy, fast-paced lifestyles where we have less and less time to establish friendships with other women and look beyond ourselves (often self centered selves). The result is that with our limited time we assume that our intimate relationships we have to give us what we need. This would not work. Men, for better or worse, will always be men. We can not make men fit into a female mold, and vice versa.
Ok, I am done with this "men vs. women" thing, at least for today. LOL

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